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12 DRESSES OF CHRISTMAS NO. 11: SPARKLE AND ROSE GOLD

 On the 11th day of Christmas my Fashion Fairy gave to me.....
Sequins Dress from Eloquii

 NOW THIS IS WHAT I CALL A PARTY DRESS!!!!
The sequins on the Eloquii dress changes change to gold, black, silver, yellow and pink sparkles as you run you hands across it.  I spent a good 10 min changing the colors on my dress the first time I tried it on.  (Side Bar: Mini me took one looked at me, shook her head and retreated back into her video games....oh well)


To keep  the party going I added more sparkle with my gold clutch bag and rose gold heels.  Two things to love about this bag: the gold chain and its ability to become a side bag.  Being from NYC,  I need a bag that I can change to go over my shoulder keeping my hands free. 
Added the rose gold strappy heels to complement the pink in the dress.


I didn't add any jewelry to this look (I am the sparkle and shine).
Just a little peplum leather jacket, I'm ready to party my New Years Eve Away!!!!
 OUTFIT DETAILS

 Dress: Eloquii
Jacket: Lane Bryant
Bag: Torrid (no longer available)
Shoes: Ashley Stewart (no longer available)

jacket sponsored by Lane Bryant
photos by MGP photography


STYLE EYE ON PLUS MALE MODEL BENJAMIN MONTANEZ


Hello Stylistas!!!!
Taking a bit of a break to prep fore events later this year but I wanted to highlight a few people this week that I following and who I think you should follow as well. 
Say hello to Benjamin!!! He is an emerging male models and all around nice guy.    Now you guys know how much I stand for the plus male models so when I got the opportunity to ask him a few questions I felt I had to share him with you all. 

Here he is...




NEC: Tell me a bit about yourself.  Where you’re from? What you do for work  and or for fun.   

BM:  Lets see. What to say about me...Well I am originally from a small town in California  called Lemoore, but I am currently living in Highlands Ranch Colorado where I work  as an EMT in a downtown Hospital in the Emergency Room. I’ve been in the medical  field for over 13 years now, it’s not always the easiest job but I love it.  As for a social life I am a Single guy, no wife, no girlfriend and no kids so really I  don’t have much of a social life. I do enjoy going to the movies and of course the  gym. I’m super excited about it being Halloween though, it means all the haunted  houses will be opening...so if anyone in the Denver area is trying to go let me  know...haha  

NEC: Love how you use my interview to find your Halloween date....Clever you are!!! So to help with that how would you describe yourself?

  BM:Way too laid back…I’m completely go with the flow, I never really worry too much about time and  schedules...Unless I have to be at work. 



NEC:  What was your personal style? What is  your favorite clothing item?     

BM:  HAHA...My style? I really just wear what I feel comfortable  in. I will wear a button down shirt and a bowties one day and the next day I feel just  as amazing in a pair of holey jeans and a hoodie. I do however stay mainly with  darker colors if that counts.    My favorite article of clothing at the moment is a pair of Flex jeans from Brooklyn  Laundry I got from Maximus Trax. I actually have never had a more comfortable pair  of jeans.

NEC: Any brands you have worked with in the past?  
Any brands you would love to  work with?   
BM:  I am currently working with Large Lad Clothing ​ and ​Maximus Box  both of which have amazing clothing and selection for the plus size men. 

  Brands I would love to work with would be first and foremost Dr. Martens. I wear  Dr. Martens quite often and I absolutely love the comfort and style of them. After  that it would be Adidas, Dockers, Levi, South Pole and Marc Ecko to name a few. 

NEC: Why become a model?    How will Bengamin "the model" help improve the plus size community?
BM: I have spent most my life battling with my weight, I was bullied in school and  verbally abused over it during my previous marriage. I know that there are plenty of  people in the same situation and I know that it’s hard to stay positive
through it all. This is why I want to do it.  I want to be the one to show a  generation of plus size men,and women, that their size doesn’t define the. That  beauty is not a number on a scale.   
I would like to feel that modeling as a plus size man is helping to show others  that looking good can be done at any size. I would also hope that maybe by modeling  the overall outlook of plus size models will change for the better. 




NEC: How do you want to be remembered for?  What is your motto in life? 

BM: Why? Am I dying?  Well if I am, I would like to be remembered as someone that made a difference. I  want to be known as one of the many amazing people that pushed for body  positivity and helped changed the idea that you don’t have to be a size 32 to be  attractive   

NEC: What are some organizations, charities or social issues you work with or deal  with?  Why are these close to your heart?  

BM: I help with an event every year called the 9health fair. It helps people in the Denver  Metro area get affordable health screening and basic blood work.   I do it because I know what it’s like to have thousands of dollars worth of medical  bills you can’t pay. So if I can help someone get the medic care they need for a cost  they can afford then way wouldn’t I.    I am also putting on the first annual “Onesies on Broadway” event in October.  Basically it’s just going to be an annual event that we get people all together at a  local bar to raise a little money for a local charity as we all wear our best onesie  pajamas. This year we will be raising money for “ONE Colorado” an organization  that helps LGBT youth. 

1,000 thanks to Benjamin for giving me the opportunity to get to know him a bit more. 

If you want to see more for him follow him on FB or Instagram @ BenjaminMontanez

Now its your turn!!!! If you would like to be featured on NEC STYLE email me with photos and a bit about yourself or leave comments below

OOTD: DATE NIGHT DRESS


Friday is about the only time I 'm able to get out for some romantic bit of fun.  Yes I am single and yes I do date so I make it a point to have something in my closet I can wear that is not complicated but sexy for pop up dates. 


Being sexy and comfortable is hard right?  Wrong!!!!
The time that I felt most sexy is when I felt the most comfortable. This dress is short for my everyday wear but is just right for being sexy.  The fabric is a stretch cotton like material so it doesn't feel over dresses like some other dresses.  Patterns are my favorite thing in fashion so this makes me very happy with the multi square effect. ON TOP OF EVERYTHING IT HAS POCKETS!!!  


For hoping in or out of my UBER or short walking distances, this dress is killer. I love the amount of leg I am showing for a date night in this dress.   I've never let me size make me feel like I couldn't wear patters (as most other advise against) This dress keeps it fashionable and the obi tie belt defines my shape giving me a shapely look.

Remember....
When you feel sexy you are sexy 
 OUTFIT DETAILS
Dress: LuLa Roe
Belt: Lane Bryant
Shoes: Ashley Stewart



4 WAYS TO REACH "STYLISTA" STATUS

The road to being a stylish is not always easy. Fashion magazines, celebrities even other style bloggers can lead you down the wrong path into the dreaded land of  "TRENDY" (DA-DA-DON)
Don't worry...mamma Nant. is here for my Stylistas.
As you guys may have notice, I call the people who read my blog "Stylistas".  I don't like the word "FANS" (I am no one to have fans). I like "stylistas" because you are stylish or on you way to becoming stylish. For those of you who are already stlyish., use this as a check point.  For the girls with closets FILLED with clothing never to be worn and not sure of you stylista status....here is a quick way to know your Stylist Status.





1. DISCOVER your fifteen
THE FIFTEEN are 15 items in your closet that you CAN NOT live without. People tend to wear 15 key items the most out of all the other items in there closet.  The rest complement the 15 so it doesn't seem like they are wearing the same stagnant items (even though they are). Stylistas know there 15 and spend quality money on those items.  It maybe your classic black leather jacket (that's me!!!) or a pair of comfortable yet stylish heels. Every Stylista knows her fifteen .


2. NEVER and I do mean NEVER wear things that don't fit.
In my younger years, I wore things that were too big in order to be the dreaded TRENDY (DA-DA DON).  I still remembering my baggy pant of 1993....shutter. Now I cant imagine putting on something too large or for that matter too small. A Stylistas knows how things should fit her body and has a tailor on hand who can hem, take in a waist or take it out without ruining the fabric.  I love my tailor and known him for over 10 yrs.  I've even eaten with his family as I waited for a skirt to be taken in and picked up a love for Rugby.


What about if  I fluctuate in weight?
No problem.  You just need two sets of THE FIFTEEN.  One for your heaviest and lighter weight.  Don't let weight stop you from being Stylish. 
REMEMBER... "Live your life at any size!!!"


3. ALWAYS take care of you clothing
Remember when moms had you change out your school clothes and hang them up to "air out"? Consider that your first Stylista lesson. (THANKS MOM!!!!)
Airing your garments before putting them away is a great way to protect your garments.

Come home, take off your heels and  toss them in a corner...NEVER
Take off your dress and let it fall to the floor UMMMM.....NO!!!

Stylista's take pride in your garments because she knows their worth.  Plus, would anything you care about be on the floor  (CHILD PLEASE)


4. NEVER follow Trends because well....its a Trend!
In the world of trend report, social media and being in one day and out the next, Stylista's doesn't waist their  hard earned cash on Trends.
I'm not saying she doesn't wear trends..she just doesn't spend loads of money on it.  Tends are what the H&M/Zarah of the world is for.  Low cost trendy items that we can wear for a season are a great way to try a trend and see if it works in your closet.    (I just wish more of us understood that).


"Dresses for yourself...not anyone else" 


Now that you know your way to stylista status, I hope your ready for this stylish fall fashion N.E.C. Style is about to give you.
I KNOW I AM!!!



ILLUSTRATION: JONQUELART

MY SOLUTION TO SUMMER CHAFING


CHAFING, CHUB RUB, THE BURN...whatever you call it its a problem for most women. I use to think it was only a problem for the plus size women but I've learned that most women suffer from some kind of chafing in the summer. Rather its between the legs, under the bust or the bikini area, chafing is suffered by a large amount of women.

O know this can be an embarrassing subject to talk about but is something I've had to deal with and know women are looking for simple solutions.  I've dealt with this my WHOLE life so does that make me an expert? Maybe.  For so many years I didn't know how to combat chaffing issues and still have some reminder scars of when I didn't take care of my skin.  I hope by sharing my tips I help someone else prevent the pain and scars that I went through so they don't have to. 

There are three things to remember when dealing with Chafing:
 PREVENTION, TREATMENT & PROTECTION


Prevention
Most of the blog and articles I see talk mostly about prevention  products so I won't touch too much on this.
For me, I like to use deodorant or powder

As a plus size kid, powder was a huge part of my daily routine. (I should have taken stock in baby powder with the amount I used as a kid.) Powder helped to cool and keep the skin dry so chaffing didn't happen. The problem was that it would get on my clothes and all over the floor.

As an adult,  I use/love the Monistat Powder Gel. It's not thick and not so greasy so its perfect.This is new to my list but this product is really good if your use to powder. 



A nice solid deodorant stick was my go too for inner thigh chafing.   Not only does it allow you to stay dry but also release a great smell.  The only downfall was that it could leave white residue on your clothes (like most deodorant).  Recently I switch to  Degree Dry Spray.  Its quicker, cleaner and has different scents that release extra protection when you sweat. PLUS, no white residue.



Treatment
Once chafing has happened it is IMPORTANT to go through the process of treatment. It can leads to more skin problems and even infection.
You should clean the area first then apply an ointment.


At www.top10homeremedies.com I found a few natural products to help sooth chafing.


 Another choice is diaper rash cream.   I have used A+D Zinc Oxide cream but my new love is Monkey Butt Ointment.  It has a nice smell and is not thick.



3. Protection
The best protection is to keep the skin from rubbing anymore while it heals.



For breast,  I use Bra lines.  They can wrap around you and snap like your bra or can attach to your bra.


For thighs,  you have a choice of  shorts (microfiber is the best fabric choice) or fabric band


If your like me and find shorts to be too warm or bulky, fabric band is the way to go.  My favorite brand is Bandalettes.  Ranging in size from 2-24, from lace or microfiber, from white to flesh tone (even for darker skin).  These bands are the best and do not roll down like other.  They are super light and cant be seen (even under body con dresses).

These tips are not only for summer but all year long. I hope this was helpful to you all.


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